My son will almost always come and have me soft hold him during rule of three and will generally calm down on the first one. Many times when my husband is around and I've gotten our son to calm down my husband will say something to him after he's calmed and my son will get all upset again. Then my husband says that this stuff isn't working and that he's not getting punished for the thins he's doing because he calms down. Also after he's upset my son again my husband will comment on how he's not staying calm. Today this happened and my son calmed down and then my husband came out and started talking about how my son didn't have any privelages and he'd better get his jobs done now. After my son was gone I asked him to not get involved if I was taking care of a situation and I'd do the same and then he went on about how this isn't working. He feels our son needs a good, hard spanking but everytime we've used punishment, especially spanking,our son retaliates so I know in my heart that it's not what he needs.
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